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anthony_s1

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In Topic: [09.14.2013] The Dream That Stops and The Dream That Continues

23 October 2013 - 07:56 AM

i understand the regret you felt.. honestly, when the girls went to SG for the first time in 2011, i bought the 1st night's standing tickets from a friend of mine because he had a connection within RITS (but in my case i actually got the tickets).. but when the girls announced there was a 2nd night and i didnt get to go, i felt the exact feelings (maybe a bit less, but still similar) that you did.. and in some cases where the girls were close to me and i didnt get a chance to buy the tickets, one of my friends would've gotten them and would tell me that they had it AFTER the concert. 

 

when the girls came to beijing for the korea-china music festival, a korean girl called me (my friend) and said her tutor had tickets, while i didnt know where to buy it.. so i immediately asked for them if the tutor was okay with it but he already gave it away.. so i guess it's kinda similar to urs..

 

its like, ur heart sank and u just become incredibly moody and stuff.. u start craving for soshi even more than u have usually and whenever someone talked to u, u get agitated right?

 

im not sure how to help u with this.. even tho i faced this so many times already. the one thing i can give advice about is just try to think about something else.. if ur feeling that regret about soshi, do something non-related to soshi.. like homework or something.. but whatever u do, make sure u dont involve what ur trying to avoid.. otherwise u'll just try to link it to that issue

Wow, so sorry that your friend kinda "stabbed" you. Yeah, those disappointed feelings kinda piled up and made you can't concentrate well, then in the end you find yourself guilty for over thinking it. Maybe you felt a quite similar feelings as me..

 

But have a strong hard haha. They said let bygone be bygone right? From the hard feelings we get from these events, there are also lessons to take, and someday those lessons are gonna take part in our life. Letting go is also an important thing to do, and I will learn to let go of hard feelings from this :)


In Topic: [09.14.2013] The Dream That Stops and The Dream That Continues

22 October 2013 - 07:39 AM

i support you.

But there's just one thing that i really can't understand...

You got depressed just only because you couldn't get a red seat?

I live in Brazil and would pay even more just to have a chance to see them at least on screen no matter where would i be sitting.

I do know you got sad but sometimes i think that you should be greatfull to have met them face-to-face, live and real while the majority of us still can't :(

No.. I didn't get depressed because I didn't get a red seat. I got disappointed to those whom I trusted in buying the tickets.

And exactly as you said, I should have been more grateful to have met them live. That the disappointed feelings filled my head and it made me didn't realize sooner that I was still lucky is the reason why I got depressed. So sorry that I was late to realize :( 

Thank you for the advice though, I pray that one day they will come to your country too :)

 

 

 

Well, the lesson there is that you should never trust resellers 100%. Most of the time some of them will just screw you over. Better get from more direct sources, which is of course easier said than done. I guess being bummed out too much because of the so many disappointments you encountered kind of like watered down the supposedly great experience that you had, and I feel sad for you for experiencing that. I'm sad for you because despite the difficulties, you were still able to get inside the stadium and experience a live Girls' Generation concert, and you sorta-kinda wasted it. Sorry...

 

I've seen Girls' Generation before (shameless plug: fan accounts are in my signature below, kekekeke) and I've promised myself that I'd treasure each and every minute of it, each and every second of the experience because I wouldn't have dreamed that I would be able to see them in the first place during this lifetime. Moshpits or rock pits for me isn't really very comfortable and enjoyable, based on my three experiences of being there. It's tiring, it's exhausting. But still, soaking up that atmosphere, all that energy can still compensate for all that hassle. So I also completely understand why you didn't feel that great either.

 

As for the Taipei stop, I queued up to get tickets at 7AM, whereas the ticket sales opened at 1PM. And then, through several system crashes and whatnot, I was able to get tickets. It was quite the hassle, I tell you.

 

Well, at least you realized that sooner or later, rather than no realizing it at all. At the very least you've learned a lot from this experience and hopefully, the next time you get a chance to see the Girls, you would have a happier experience, and you know where to go and what to do to get tickets.

Yea, first I thought that this might be a once in a lifetime chance for them to have a solo concert in my country, that's why I was so eager to sit on the very front in a hope to make it the greatest day I could never forget. Turned out that it was really a day I could and I would never forget because it may be a once in a lifetime experience too.

 

I feel sorry for myself too because I wasn't thankful enough to the point that I kinda wasted about half of the concert. But maybe, this experience is what I should get and learn from in order not to make the same mistake in the future. Because of this experience, I have decided that next time(if there is or there are), even if I got the backseat, and even if I stand on the very back, I'll still swing my hands in the air and live the atmosphere. Thanks for the encouragement :)