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GiJeokangelgotwings

holding someone's arm/neck in a "BUDDY" way is of course normal, dude.
but our hands were like..ya know, not the kind of friends would hold you like.
O.O ..aish!i can just feel it..it's different.
and she was silent the whole time i'm holding her. and she gave off the same vibe throughout the last meeting.
she's like looking somewhere else,like a bit awkward too..
Oct 20 2010 08:29 PM
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GiJeokangelgotwings

now i'm loading up my guns and i'm gonna fire you endlessly.
why the bomb question? GAAAH!
i dont know what will happen because it didnt happened!hahaha.
but..i dont think my ex and i will get together.
seriously.
because..we're like the opposites of each other.
and i really dont understand how fate puts us together.:P
Oct 20 2010 08:25 PM
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angelgotwingsGiJeok

dude, im already getting ready to choke you and throwing up right now..!
lmao! like seriously.. and i feel like you're using aegyo this time! YUCK! lol
LOL i hole hands with my friends! i hook my arm on their necks for christ's sake! what's wrong with you!? stop putting malice in those situations! LOL
YAH! stop avoding her! ur throwing out your chance!
Oct 20 2010 03:28 PM
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angelgotwingsGiJeok

ohhhh! i get it now! haha! sorry for my utter stupidity..
haha~ so your ex confessed first.. ok question.. if the other girl confessed first,
and you became together, do you think you will still accept your ex if she somehow
confessed after you got together with the other one? LOL
Oct 20 2010 03:17 PM
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GiJeokangelgotwings

ottoke~i'm a shy person. [blehh...my buddies will choke to death if they hears about this.] :P
well i dont hold hands with someone randomly out of nowhere!
dont you think somehow it shows intimacy?
aish..now i'm avoiding her already. confuseddd!!!
Oct 20 2010 12:15 PM
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GiJeokangelgotwings

haha. this is fun.
you're confused?on which part?
ok let put it this way~
my ex, confessed first.
while the other girl was silent about it.
after me and MY EX got together.suddenly THE OTHER GIRL said she actually likes me.and we kinda end up being secret lovers.
:P understand, silly?
Oct 20 2010 12:11 PM
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angelgotwingsGiJeok

i know i know! im giving her time to think..
but im always there.. i always show that im always there to make her think fast? hahaha!
and i can feel that im getting close to it.. hahha!
thanks dude.. for the advices.. LOL
and hey! holding hands is a casual way of showing affection and like i said before, THERE's NOTHING WRONG WITH IT!
Oct 20 2010 10:56 AM
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angelgotwingsGiJeok

dude, so you fell for the other one first but you ddnt have a relationship!? im confused! like seriously!
Oct 20 2010 10:54 AM
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GiJeokSieka

now that i mentioned that, actually going to therapist is like pouring out problems to your friends, as well.
except that sometimes they do it because it's their job.
:P~
Oct 20 2010 03:51 AM
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GiJeokSieka

at first i hesitated going to therapy..
but then i gather up my courage and went to see the therapist anyway.
and it was great, actually!
i was grateful to my doctor. she advised me a lot about life.
and she gave me strength too.
i opened up to her and stated my problems and all.we end up being good friends.^^
Oct 20 2010 03:50 AM
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GiJeokSieka

i know..they'll be a good listener.
but yeah, i'm a stubborn person!and i hate to be a burden to others.
and i think i still can handle it by myself.
but i promise if it's getting out of hand, i'll seek comfort from someone, or anybody.
at the time being, no. and it's in the past anyway..i'm quite..healed already.
Oct 20 2010 03:47 AM
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SiekaGiJeok

Therapists always come in handy, I do think we have them to help us in a way. I don't know anything about psychology or about the ways of the mind of man but from what I'm hearing, I do really guess that going through those was for the best. ^ ^ Never experiences going to a therapy. :3
Oct 20 2010 01:25 AM
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SiekaGiJeok

Hmm....Well I do guess there's not much of a purpose if you disclose it with them if they can't solve it...but that's not really the point. Even if they can't solve your problems, they can still comfort you and support you through the problems your going through, at least that much is already of help to you. ^ ^ But since it is your choice, then there's no point in going through it. :)
Oct 20 2010 01:22 AM
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GiJeokSieka

yep you are 60% right about that.hehe.
the reason im still standing proud is that it's my own head telling me what to do. it's all about psychology, understanding yourself before you understand others. it helps me a lot.
and i went to a therapy too,..once.just to find ways to relax myself.
i learnt self control from there.nice experience!
Oct 20 2010 12:57 AM