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GiJeok → Sieka
now that i mentioned that, actually going to therapist is like pouring out problems to your friends, as well.
except that sometimes they do it because it's their job.
:P~
except that sometimes they do it because it's their job.
:P~
Oct 20 2010 03:51 AM
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GiJeok → Sieka
at first i hesitated going to therapy..
but then i gather up my courage and went to see the therapist anyway.
and it was great, actually!
i was grateful to my doctor. she advised me a lot about life.
and she gave me strength too.
i opened up to her and stated my problems and all.we end up being good friends.^^
but then i gather up my courage and went to see the therapist anyway.
and it was great, actually!
i was grateful to my doctor. she advised me a lot about life.
and she gave me strength too.
i opened up to her and stated my problems and all.we end up being good friends.^^
Oct 20 2010 03:50 AM
GiJeok → Sieka
i know..they'll be a good listener.
but yeah, i'm a stubborn person!and i hate to be a burden to others.
and i think i still can handle it by myself.
but i promise if it's getting out of hand, i'll seek comfort from someone, or anybody.
at the time being, no. and it's in the past anyway..i'm quite..healed already.
but yeah, i'm a stubborn person!and i hate to be a burden to others.
and i think i still can handle it by myself.
but i promise if it's getting out of hand, i'll seek comfort from someone, or anybody.
at the time being, no. and it's in the past anyway..i'm quite..healed already.
Oct 20 2010 03:47 AM
rolandx101x → Sieka
ohh.. Live Action.. so sorry, i'm too slow..XDD
i don't watch live action of anime.. 'cause for me it's kinda boring to watch live actions.. when i try to watch jigoku shoujo live action.. uhhm.. i got bored so i didn't finish watching that..
--- we're taking two science.. physics and chemistry.. chemistry, somehow i'm getting it.. esp the ionic bonds.. i really love that lesson.. ^^
i don't watch live action of anime.. 'cause for me it's kinda boring to watch live actions.. when i try to watch jigoku shoujo live action.. uhhm.. i got bored so i didn't finish watching that..
--- we're taking two science.. physics and chemistry.. chemistry, somehow i'm getting it.. esp the ionic bonds.. i really love that lesson.. ^^
Oct 20 2010 02:31 AM
Sieka → GiJeok
Therapists always come in handy, I do think we have them to help us in a way. I don't know anything about psychology or about the ways of the mind of man but from what I'm hearing, I do really guess that going through those was for the best. ^ ^ Never experiences going to a therapy. :3
Oct 20 2010 01:25 AM
Sieka → GiJeok
Hmm....Well I do guess there's not much of a purpose if you disclose it with them if they can't solve it...but that's not really the point. Even if they can't solve your problems, they can still comfort you and support you through the problems your going through, at least that much is already of help to you. ^ ^ But since it is your choice, then there's no point in going through it. :)
Oct 20 2010 01:22 AM
GiJeok → Sieka
yep you are 60% right about that.hehe.
the reason im still standing proud is that it's my own head telling me what to do. it's all about psychology, understanding yourself before you understand others. it helps me a lot.
and i went to a therapy too,..once.just to find ways to relax myself.
i learnt self control from there.nice experience!
the reason im still standing proud is that it's my own head telling me what to do. it's all about psychology, understanding yourself before you understand others. it helps me a lot.
and i went to a therapy too,..once.just to find ways to relax myself.
i learnt self control from there.nice experience!
Oct 20 2010 12:57 AM
GiJeok → Sieka
haha.i acknowledge my stubbornness. no i wont share my problems to my friends. they'll end up not understanding the most of it anyway.
and they couldnt even solve their own probs, i wont add up my own and burden them.
i'm ok with this.yeah, dont worry.^^
and they couldnt even solve their own probs, i wont add up my own and burden them.
i'm ok with this.yeah, dont worry.^^
Oct 20 2010 12:50 AM
Sieka → GiJeok
So they are your inspiration to stand tall and be brave? I see, I'm happy about that. At least even if you can't let out your feelings of pain and worry to them, they still can help you out by being there without even knowing that you need them to be there. ^ ^
Oct 20 2010 12:49 AM
Sieka → GiJeok
Oh, good that you aren't forcing out a smile. ^ ^ I see....well I guess it is alright to hide your worries away from your friends, but I don't think that's a healthy deal...keeping your worries to yourself will affect you drastically, especially if it is concerning a painful memory. They said that a companions warm loving embrace deals a little with the pain, and I believe in that. ^ ^
Oct 20 2010 12:47 AM
GiJeok → Sieka
yeah those pains are healing without me even realizing it.
people who are close to me, they are the cure to my pain .although they dont have a single clue about it. :)
glad they are by my side. their presence is enough, for the moment.
and i am being strong for them. and for those who care about me.
people who are close to me, they are the cure to my pain .although they dont have a single clue about it. :)
glad they are by my side. their presence is enough, for the moment.
and i am being strong for them. and for those who care about me.
Oct 20 2010 12:26 AM
GiJeok → Sieka
nah i'm not forcing out those smiles.they are genuine.
it's just that sometimes i do feel like those memories still affects me.
the most important thing is,i survived on my own.
sounds selfish and stupid,but i dont like sharing my problems with my friends since it's actually the opposite. they came to me with their own misery.and i havent had the chance to spit out my own.
it's just that sometimes i do feel like those memories still affects me.
the most important thing is,i survived on my own.
sounds selfish and stupid,but i dont like sharing my problems with my friends since it's actually the opposite. they came to me with their own misery.and i havent had the chance to spit out my own.
Oct 20 2010 12:23 AM
Sieka → GiJeok
...it makes it might even make you feel miserable to smile just because you need to hide your pain. :3"
Oct 20 2010 12:08 AM
Sieka → GiJeok
Oh, so you're that kind of person. I think its bad to try and hide your problems away by using a mask of false happiness, sometimes you need to confront it or ask for help and assistance, they said that its best to consult a friend for such problems, its not too good to solve all the problems you have with just yourself. Letting out a false smile would also never solve, instead....
Oct 20 2010 12:06 AM
